these six things will amplify for desire to do you ten fold. again I can’t stress this enough take your time don’t be in a rush relax let her body guide you. here is a tip on to see if she is ready for something heavier: when you pull up to adjust your self or to change techniques and she quickly pulls you back to her. for instance if you were licking her inner thighs and you pulled up to readjust yourself and she pushes your head back down between her legs….. well I think you can handle it from there